The Aftermath–

Jack’s Wednesday guest post deals with what came next –

We settled into our new abode in the tiny one-street village of New Gilston, with Valkittie (pictured below) and our newly acquired dog, Rabbie.

Wendy quickly set up a non-profit charity called ‘Storytelling Unplugged,’ which created afterschool clubs and community events and she recruited like-minded folk as her team. She was still working on her PhD and traveling a fair bit to interview other storytellers scattered around the UK. In between all this she was continuing to write a regular column for the newspaper where she had worked in Tennessee. I saw her occasionally, a whirlwind coming in or going out the door. And we managed some fun marriage moments between gigs….

Meanwhile I was in a senior position in a local community college with five years still to go before retirement and gigging musically with my buddy, George, who had been best man at our wedding.

But –

Around March following our wedding the previous year, the phone rang. I answered it and Wendy heard me say, “sure Cittie, that’s fine”. I looked over and saw an expression accompanied by a long pause that I would learn to recognize over the next twenty five years. She knew that Cittie Finlayson was the organizer of the ‘Muchty folk festival – yes – the same one that was held the weekend we got married. “Did you just give away our first anniversary?!” she eventually said – – –

I took her to dinner. Next year, we celebrated our anniversary a day early.

The Monday Book – Eight Hundred Grapes by Laura Dave

Guest review by Janelle Bailey, avid reader/ever-an-educator/lifelong learnerand also now 7th grade teacher and part-time bookseller

Eight Hundred Grapes by Laura Dave

Though not new (2015 publication), this book’s themes are classic: family and relationships and love and commitment, as well as vineyards and winemaking are all complex and hard work…heart work.

Georgia and Ben are to be married very soon and at her home, her family’s vineyard, about 500 miles away from where they now live. But a pretty big secret prompts Georgia to flee there sooner, only to find things a bit of a mess there as well.

It’s a tangled web they all–we all??–weave and live, and in the de-tangling of this one, relationships are questioned and their truths revealed, painful in processing. And due to the family vineyard and winemaking business, a reader learns much about that as well. Subtle connections between the complexities of grape growing, and even the soil mattering, to “growing” a family and building relationships mattering from the ground up were also detected by this reader. Knowing the history and building the “story” of it matter to both. Living through the tough times and persevering matter, too.

I enjoyed the visit to The Last Straw, the family vineyard established in 1979. For this reader who happens to appreciate as favorite beverages, water, tea, and wine, learning how important the first two are to making the third well at this vineyard was additional and educational enjoyment.

And I appreciated the focus, also, on synchronization, simultaneity, rhythm…and how little we understand as it’s happening why things are exactly as they are but seemingly are…as they are to be.

I say read it! I think you’ll be pleased that you did.