Flowing

So I probably owe you loyal readers an explanation about my four-month hiatus. We will get to that, but for today let me tell you what jolted me back to this part of my writing life.

Bliss.

Since December 2025 I’ve been moving houses, trying to get someone acting like a madman out of one of them, juggling hard writing deadlines, and working to create a successful path for my successor through my slightly unique day job.

All work and no play–except that Japan trip. During the Japan trip, on the last full day before we flew the next night, my dad died. It was not unexpected; he had left us long ago through Alzheimer’s. But the physical death was sudden, so there was nothing for my friend and fellow traveler in Japan Amelia and I to do but come home at the planned time.

When I got home, a few details to clean up meant I last wrote to you March 11. And then my brain kinda shut down. I’m still producing radio stories. I’m still conducting interviews on the Hurricane Helene book for a December manuscript deadline. And I have spoken with an Appalachian-based press about the Eviction book (tentatively titled No Good Deed) detailing what happened when we invited That Guy to live in our second home. Which is now my primary home. That and a book about Food Insecurity in Appalachia will be next.

But what I really want to tell you about today is my friend Amelia’s casual life-lifting comment “My friend Caroline is inviting some women to sit in the river; let’s go.” The New River is very shallow in many places, not least near the hydro dam in Fries (pronounced Freeze for those of you who paused here). We took sunscreen, hats, and chairs, and went down to the river to play.

This was my first meeting with Caroline, an engaging soul whose word count might approximate 500 per minute. She is a good storyteller so that was fun. We were sitting in shallow water something between swimming pool and bathwater in temperature, so that was delightful. Little fish schools swam around us, so that was diverting; we contemplated losing our water shoes for impromptu pedicures.

It was a relaxing couple of hours, and they did not so much speed past as flow gently. When we left I found I had been sitting doing nothing but enjoying the flow of words and the flow of water for more than two hours.

Amelia and I got dinner, I went home, lay down, and slept for 12 hours, rising only once to properly prepare for bed after having been in it awhile.

Bliss, I tell you. I had no idea how tired I was, how sick I was of moving stuff between houses in preparation for moving to Scotland. How stressed I was over moving all the logistics of the healthcare nonprofit to a new mind, fresh and eager but unaware of details unless I imparted them.

We will talk later of the iron clad lease now in place (1500 words and counting) for the people staying in my wilderness property. Of our concern that our house in town is not selling. Of my disappoint at not getting an awesome job that I was a finalist for two years ago. They checked my references, then went with a man from DC, transplanted him to Appalachia, and expected all to be well. He blew out 14 months later. They didn’t offer my interview this time. That’s more about them than me and I know it, so let it flow away. Scotland ho. We have a small apartment overlooking the ocean in Stonehaven awaiting.

More later, but just know I missed sharing the small sweet moments that make up the bigness of life with you. Hope you are doing well, and hang in there if not. The water will eventually wash it away.

But our Mistkaes were more Sophisticated!

Amelia and I were proud of our abilities navigating Japan. She had a hot spot and I had a working GPS. She spoke Japanese and I am experienced with train systems. So we had it made.

Except when we didn’t, but we submit that our mistakes were of an upscale variety. We didn’t get on the wrong train; we mistook a 7 for a 1 and got off at the wrong station. We didn’t fail to book accommodation; we decided to be spontaneous and carefree and the flea pit we wound up sleeping in proved a delightful adventure. Plus we avoided bedbugs. We didn’t misread a bus schedule; we spent two hours enjoying the mountain views of Minakami before scheduling a taxi ride.

Perhaps the best mistake was on our return. We flew Tokyo to Atlanta, and then Atlanta to Baltimore. Most of our fellow travelers from the East left in Atlanta.

Having delighted my heart and solved a logistical problem by buying a Woodstock and Snoopy suitcase in Tokyo, I had also proved to everyone that I would never grow up. Woodstock has been my favorite cartoon character since age 8, and as I told Amelia, I might even kill for the chance to own a Woodstock suitcase.

Which might prove necessary, Amelia said when we tried to get into the character store at the main Tokyo airport train station. Cute culture is everywhere in Tokyo. Character stores specialize in Pokemon, a cute cat company called Mofusand (I fell in love and went broke) assorted superhero collectives, and yes, Peanuts. And they are equally attractive to tourists and locals. We couldn’t even pass through the hallway outside, stuffed with people. We fled, but that night I found a Peanuts carry-on at the big department store near our hostel. Best souvenir ever, and no one stateside would own one like it, Amelia and I agreed. Well, except those 400 people in the hallway outside the character store, but they were probably going for Pokemons.

You know what’s coming, right? We got off last in Baltimore because we were cattle call passengers in Zone 8. We hadn’t paid for checked bags but I took advantage of the free offer staff usually make at the last minute to let Snoopy and Woodstock ride in the hold. When they came off the conveyor belt in the first round of cases, they proudly sported a “Delta Priority” sticker, which I assumed was because of the last-minute checking of the bag.

Nope: some guy in first class had a case exactly like mine. To be fair, it was 11pm and had been Wednesday for 32 hours, so cut us a little slack, eh?

When we reached our hotel, Amelia found a message on her phone commanding us to return and exchange cases. On the way back to the airport (fortunately just a few miles away) we discussed what sort of professional traveler businessman in first class would have a Snoopy and Woodstock bag. But we couldn’t be too judgmental, Amelia pointed out, because, you know, I had one.

The exchange was made without anyone coming to blows. When the United employee suggested to me that I had not looked carefully enough, I looked at her very carefully indeed, then smiled (it might have been more teeth baring) and said “Goodnight.” Japan can teach one a lot about polite aggression.

I never met the guy who owned the case just like mine, but did see one tall, thin Japanese man with a dignified ponytail sitting in a sad little slump outside the office where the exchange took place. It seemed best not to engage.

See? We only made upper class mistakes.