A Life’s Work Rolls On – –

Jack’s guest post is a bit late this week, because Wendy beat him to it on Wednesday – –

When I first met Wendy she was working as a community storyteller in Kingsport, Tennessee. She used her skills to help folk in a housing project engage with the world outside through telling their stories of re-entry from prison life, from their native Appalachian towns, and from learning about other cultures through her telling them stories.

Throughout our time together she has used these storytelling skills as well as her writing to continue supporting various communities – refugees and asylum seekers in England included. She worked with the Muslim moms there to help them tell their own stories and again learn about other countries from children’s storytelling, and also teaching them to tell stories in their community.

On arriving in Scotland she quickly set up a storytelling cooperative called ‘Storytelling Unplugged’ which ran afterschool clubs and library events as well as activities in health centers and even in the only Scottish children’s hospice. Eventually she wound up on The Scottish Government traditional arts committee.

She is the only person to have served on both the US and Scottish storytelling national governing bodies.

All of that led eventually to where she is now – in Appalachia as the Executive Director of GMEC (Graduate Medical Education Consortium of SW Virginia – a real mouthful!).

So now she brings together all of that plus a PhD in Folklore and a Masters in Public Health and an enthusiasm for foraging and gardening to (drum roll please)….

bringing together medical students and trainee doctors to learn how to interact with their often misunderstood patients through programs of community nourishment and a mixture of storytelling and writing. All of that and encouraging youngsters to become medical professionals and others from outside Appalachia to relocate here and set down roots.

Wendy puts the community into medical community, and I am proud of her! Especially when her whole use of storytelling to build trust and combat misinformation landed her on NPR last week. Their program THROUGHLINES was doing a conspiracy theory and medical misinformation blog post, and they interviewed her as one of their experts. Hers was the final quote of the whole program, speaking the truth by saying that the truth mattered. In fact, it is a matter of life and death.

I am proud of my wife’s accomplishments, but listening her talk about people telling the truth might have been my proudest moment yet!

The Monday Book: KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT AND WEAR BEIGE by Kathleen Seidel

I am a sucker for character-driven plots. This one was fun because it set up a problem not so often discussed in latte lit. And also not universal. I myself have never been the mother of the groom, but Seidel’s subtle humor and wicked insights made me feel empathy for her narrator’s plight.

This book has a cast of thousands: two families, a new girlfriend, even a snarky nasty prima donna writer. And they’re all fun. Some are omnipresent, some are thrown in as plot devices, but each makes their appearance in ways that elicit sympathy or condescension.

The basic plot is, of course, the wedding. But the wedding is complicated by one family being wealthy and the new girlfriend being a social climber. And the wealthy family has a special needs kid. And the narrator is having a hard time with her ex-husband’s social climber taking over wedding plans. The narrator (Darcy) has a streak of do-gooder to her that keeps her from being too perfect as she tangles with emotions and attitudes and tries to maintain her son’s needs, her own sanity, and the mental well-being of other children who surround the wedding and maybe get a little less attention during this time. Darcy can’t stand not being needed.

It was a fun read, the kind of relationship-driven character novel that makes you smile when you recognize a personality and laugh when your least favorite gets a comeuppance. Which they all do at one point or another. Read it at the beach or on a plane, before a big family wedding–or maybe, if you have a wicked sense of humor, just before you vacation in the Hamptons. There’s a lot of “poor little rich people” observations in the book.

Two bouquets up for Keep Your Mouth Shut and Wear Beige.