Trixie Weighs In – all 13 pounds of her

Right, people, listen up. Some of you may not know me. My name is Trixie and I’m in charge around here.

I am the emotional support dog attached to Wendy Welch. By which I mean, Wendy is my emotional support human. I have a few… neuroses, shall we say. Wendy helps me with my anxiety.

People ask, was I a rescue, because I am so anxious. Those people are clearly not well-informed on current events. If you’re not anxious, you’re not paying attention.

I work with Wendy at some food bank stuff. Once a week she goes to this place where people line up outside like an hour beforehand. And there’s a big guy with a big husky. The guy is really nice to me, but the husky has said some rude things I don’t appreciate. Mom puts my leash under a table leg and everybody talks nice to me. But it’s still a bit taxing on my nerves. So many people wanting to pet me, saying how cute I am. A dog likes to be taken seriously. Like the big husky barking her fool head off across the parking lot. (She has to wait over there because she doesn’t volunteer with the warehouse, see.) Nobody ever calls HER cute….

I can live with cute, though, when it comes to the other place with the food. Wendy works with a bunch of med students once a month. They cook meals for people in a rent-controlled housing facility. Everybody at the facility loves me. Naturally. When they call me cute, they slip me scraps of the chicken gumbo or whatever the med students are cooking. And when the students play ball with the kids, I get to play too. It’s fun to run around at the housing complex. It is a quarter mile to walk around the whole sidewalk circling the place, and I have run this MANY times with a group of kids. Once a bunch of people chased me because I slipped my harness. Good times.

So, it’s not all bad having an emotional support human. I’ll tell you more secrets later. For now, stay warm out there. I have a winter coat attached to me, but you people have to assemble yourselves to go out. That thing with your feet, weird. But do what you need to do. It’s all good.

Open Door

We have a foodbank in our town called Open Door. It’s a café where you can buy lunch for yourself, buy suspended lunches for others through a token system, or work off lunch with an hour of stuffing giveaway bags for kids at risk of weekend food insecurity.

Open Door is run by a nice guy named Mike. Although one is told not to trust a skinny cook, Mike has a way about him that belies this. And his volunteers love him.

So when Open Door needed to shut down for two weeks for an overhaul–paint job, remodel, and new equipment—Katie called.

Katie is one of the people I would literally follow into Hell if she asked. Trustworthy, kind, no-nonsense—also skinny, but well we can’t all be perfect.

Katie is the one who suckered me into the Wytheville Women’s Club, a group of kindly do-gooders who go around filling blessing boxes with canned goods, paying for kids whose parents can’t afford to send them on end-of-year field trips, and visiting homeless encampments with rainproof tarps. I think they also put a new roof on a historic building a couple years ago.

You know, do-gooders.

The do-gooders would be filling in while Open Door was closed. Katie drew up menus, which were promptly redrawn when Open Doors threw wide their walk-in refrigerator and we saw just how much fresh produce gets thrown away in Wytheville, if the food pantries aren’t there to catch it.

The homeless ate chef salad, stuffed peppers, baked potatoes with all the toppings, fresh fruit, and about a thousand of those nasty sheet cakes with greasy neon icing. We threatened people that they couldn’t have salad unless they took a dozen cupcakes.

The people coming to eat were kind, friendly, sad, damaged, mentally challenged, fighting breast cancer, dealing with a nasty divorce, reeling from the loss of a spouse who had been paying the whole mortgage, and otherwise figuring life out from the underside of the helping hand. The people offering the helping hands were kind, friendly, sad, damaged, mentally challenged, fighting two different kinds of cancer, dealing with recent loss, and owned our own homes and businesses.

It was like playing food Tetris. A bus would pull up (homeless people can get free transit from temporary hotel placements or the camp at the park) and discharge six to eight hungry passengers. They would go first to the table of free food, select salads, fruit cups, packages of bread, politely try to refuse the cupcakes. Then they would pick up the Styrofoam clam shell of lunch. One woman, when I pointed out the heat-and-serve microwave Italian meals, gave a sad smile.

“Our power’s off. I only got a gas oven going.” We loaded her up with pre-chopped celery, onions, olives, flatbread, and spaghetti sauce.

The next lady said she couldn’t cook in her living situation at all. She pointed. “I’m living over there, under those trees.”

We gave her cookies, some egg salad and ham sandwiches we warned her to eat that night or throw away, and a container of taco chips. And a half dozen cupcakes.

Some could cook, some could keep food cold, some both, others neither. As we smiled and held out items and packed food into bags and boxes, we noticed patterns. On both Fridays we were out of food 45 minutes before we quit serving. All week people had said things like “No just this will do me, give the rest to someone who really needs it.” On Friday, they accepted everything we suggested.

Making it through the weekend until the café reopened Monday.

It’s a fail good, what we did, a system put in place so nice people can take up slack that shouldn’t be there at all. But it makes a difference to the people who ate those ten days, and kept their family carbohydrate over the long, hot weekend.