Flowing

So I probably owe you loyal readers an explanation about my four-month hiatus. We will get to that, but for today let me tell you what jolted me back to this part of my writing life.

Bliss.

Since December 2025 I’ve been moving houses, trying to get someone acting like a madman out of one of them, juggling hard writing deadlines, and working to create a successful path for my successor through my slightly unique day job.

All work and no play–except that Japan trip. During the Japan trip, on the last full day before we flew the next night, my dad died. It was not unexpected; he had left us long ago through Alzheimer’s. But the physical death was sudden, so there was nothing for my friend and fellow traveler in Japan Amelia and I to do but come home at the planned time.

When I got home, a few details to clean up meant I last wrote to you March 11. And then my brain kinda shut down. I’m still producing radio stories. I’m still conducting interviews on the Hurricane Helene book for a December manuscript deadline. And I have spoken with an Appalachian-based press about the Eviction book (tentatively titled No Good Deed) detailing what happened when we invited That Guy to live in our second home. Which is now my primary home. That and a book about Food Insecurity in Appalachia will be next.

But what I really want to tell you about today is my friend Amelia’s casual life-lifting comment “My friend Caroline is inviting some women to sit in the river; let’s go.” The New River is very shallow in many places, not least near the hydro dam in Fries (pronounced Freeze for those of you who paused here). We took sunscreen, hats, and chairs, and went down to the river to play.

This was my first meeting with Caroline, an engaging soul whose word count might approximate 500 per minute. She is a good storyteller so that was fun. We were sitting in shallow water something between swimming pool and bathwater in temperature, so that was delightful. Little fish schools swam around us, so that was diverting; we contemplated losing our water shoes for impromptu pedicures.

It was a relaxing couple of hours, and they did not so much speed past as flow gently. When we left I found I had been sitting doing nothing but enjoying the flow of words and the flow of water for more than two hours.

Amelia and I got dinner, I went home, lay down, and slept for 12 hours, rising only once to properly prepare for bed after having been in it awhile.

Bliss, I tell you. I had no idea how tired I was, how sick I was of moving stuff between houses in preparation for moving to Scotland. How stressed I was over moving all the logistics of the healthcare nonprofit to a new mind, fresh and eager but unaware of details unless I imparted them.

We will talk later of the iron clad lease now in place (1500 words and counting) for the people staying in my wilderness property. Of our concern that our house in town is not selling. Of my disappoint at not getting an awesome job that I was a finalist for two years ago. They checked my references, then went with a man from DC, transplanted him to Appalachia, and expected all to be well. He blew out 14 months later. They didn’t offer my interview this time. That’s more about them than me and I know it, so let it flow away. Scotland ho. We have a small apartment overlooking the ocean in Stonehaven awaiting.

More later, but just know I missed sharing the small sweet moments that make up the bigness of life with you. Hope you are doing well, and hang in there if not. The water will eventually wash it away.

Two New Things

Well, if yesterday was two lovely things, today is two new ones. I flew back from Cushendall in NI to Edinburgh in prep for heading back to the States tomorrow, and had two new experiences. Apparently they travel in pairs these days.

As the plane took off, I felt water drip on me. The man next to me put up his hand and wiped away a drip above him. We looked at each other.

“Bottle of something musta come out of someone’s bag,” he said in a thick Irish accent.

I took the laminated safety cards out of our respective seat pockets and we used them as shields during takeoff. The instant the plane leveled, I pressed the call button.

The flight attendants appeared a couple of minutes later (when the sleeve of my sweater was soaked) bearing paper towels. They explained it was condensation, not a spilled bottle, and it wasn’t hurting any luggage. They stuffed the towels into the crevices and gave me some to clean up with.

My companion in the next seat decided we had bonded. “Had yersel’ a nice Irish holiday?” he asked.

One of my resolutions for this winter is to be more outgoing, talk to strangers, etc. I sighed and shut my book.

He was, in a word, inebriated, and eager to explain the details of his fascinating life. These mostly involved women in pretty dresses at dances, and the fact that he was having a 60th birthday party on Sunday coming with a couple hundred of his closest friends and family. He told me about living in Italy, where he was doing contract work, visiting family in Belfast, where he was born, and traveling to Kirkcaldy (in Fife, Scotland) where he lived when he wasn’t away.

He also told me about traveling north with his ex-girlfriend for a few days before the party, getting some nice hotel rooms. He said ex-girlfriend several times, but always in conjunction with a hotel. Then he moved on to the dance he’d been at the night before we found ourselves getting dripped on aboard this plane.

“Great dance in Belfast, lotsa old friends there, including a friend from Poland I used to go out with, just got married, pregnant out to here, but we got in a dance.” His hands indicated her size. “I made her promise not to do any twirls, like.” He hauled out his phone.

“And my other good friend was there, too. I don’t date her anymore, but she looked lovely in that dress.” Evidence was proffered by photo and yes, she did. It was a hot pink draped number, elegant yet sexy.

Switching gears abruptly, he started talking about a visit to Germany. Apparently the connection was he’d made it with the “other good friend” in the pink number.

“Saw a motorcycle by the side of this lake, and went to take a look, and there were some clothes, and then the rushes shook and out the two came, buck naked. They look at me without shame and say ‘morgen.’ I say ‘morgen’ back. That kinda thing happens there all the time.”

It was only a thirty-minute flight, I told myself. And indeed the plane landed mid-story of his next trip, with an old flame, someplace around Orkney.

But then the pilot came on: our spot was taken by a malfunctioning plane. Only 30 minutes to fly between cities, but it took 45 to deplane. Never mind, my new best friend had more stories…..

At the end of his story, he asked me if I needed a ride anyplace, he was picking up a car.

And that’s all you’ll be picking up, buddy, I did not say aloud, and assured him I was all set. He had the grace to look vaguely disappointed.

So now I’ve sat next to a drunk man on a plane, and honestly, if it must happen, the wee hopper between Belfast and Edinburgh was the right time. And I’ve been condesensationed by a plane – which is not quite the same thing as being condescended to, so that’s all right, isn’t it?

What silly adventures the world holds, eh? Sorry, no photos because, you know, who takes photos of drunk men on planes?